Monday, December 17, 2007

Life is a Rollercoaster!!

Sometimes in our lives we need to introspect as to how we have lived it. We will come across many incidents which we think could have been handled in a better way. At the end of the day we just have words to say that if only i could have done it differently, ALAS....

We do lotta mistakes in life just by doing things in haste. We don't even think about the repercussions that our actions might cause. We might end up causing irreparable damage to ourselves as well as others unnecessarily.

Anger is something we need to keep in check. I mean when one's angry he/she just doesn't think in a way he/she would when they are normal.As a result of this, we end up saying/doing things the consequences of which can be catastrophic to say the least.

Once we calm down and think about our actions we need to think whether that moment of insanity on our part was worth it all. Relationships that are otherwise strong are broken in one moment of madness. Lives are altered. It will never be the same again.

The act of redemption is one of the most difficult things to say the least. I mean you cannot deny your actions or the words you have said. Its very difficult to establish something which you seem to have lost in that process... Trust....

People just find it so hard to trust you after the fiasco. So, one has to think a lot before saying/doing things because our bad actions are the ones which are gonna linger on....

As always, we just have to take care that we don't repeat such acts which might cause others lotta trouble and heartburn. One learns from mistakes and we should be wiser after such incidents.

As some wise person has said, we just have to......
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst

2 comments:

Hulk said...

Relationships that are otherwise strong are broken in one moment of madness .
I would say such things do happen to people without proper conviction.
There is always an underlying belief in whatever relationship you consider , be it mother, father, friends etc etc. If that belief never existed or was weak, then it is as good as saying that the relationship never existed.
In a true relationship, agreed that a moment of madness does hurt but can the madness break it? Not possible.

Rakesh said...

the whole point i am trying to make here is that our anger makes us to do things which we wouldn't do normally... Thats the madness i am referring to